"He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
Micah 6:8

Friday, July 30, 2010

Summertime Fun!

I am soooooo behind on posts with pictures that I decided to just start putting pics up willy nilly because otherwise they will never get on so here's a look at our summer with great friends and family!  Also, you will note a big blue pool, which happens to be the best purchase we have made in quite some time! 450 bucks from walmart and as you will see from the pics a lot of fun memories too!
robbie and anthony

chris and nate

gracie

nothing like a cold popsicle on a hot summer day

can you tell that they are cousins?

gracie, emma, and maggie

miaaaaaaaaa!

gracie and karis



 niiiiiiice rob
maggie, ellie, and gracie

mia and robbie

el

silly girls

what a beauty


caleb and nate

gracie, ava, and brianna

alisha....too cute!

jaden, karis, and cassidy

kaedon

caleb and nate....goofballs!

mia

Friday, July 23, 2010

Happy Birthday Meg!!!

 I have been so blessed to have a sister to share my life with but even more importantly a friend!   Although we are several states away our relationship is as strong as if we lived right next door.  I love you!
                      Happy Birthday Megan Elizabeth!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Who is on the throne?

My sis, Lisa, had passed along to me this great visual for me to share with the kids.  It's called the Y-chart.  It hangs on my fridge as a great reminder for the kids and myself as to what choices we make and scripture that goes along with it.

Funny thing is, I gave each kiddo their own to look at and look up scriptures together and later found this one, done in typical Maggie-fashion.  She just couldn't have a simple black and white one she had to add her own flair, and this is what it looks like........haa haaa a margarita glass!!!  I cracked up! She didn't realize it, being that we don't have margaritas around here but we got a great laugh out of it and it still remains on our fridge!



What is on the throne? Who is on the throne? I find myself many times wanting to be up on the throne wanting what I want...when I want it..only to be knocked off...de throned. Why is it such a battle, my heart wants God to be the choice always yet my will battles that fleshly enticing call to elevate myself to the top through my selfishness.
It is a constant battle but one that continually draws me in to His presence as I seek to make choices that glorify Him.

Galatians 6:7-9
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked.  A man reaps what he sows.  The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.  Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.


Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Remembering Nate

I thought I would share a couple of videos remembering the life of Nate Henn.

Here is a video of Andy talking about Nate.
Go here to watch.

Also, I found a little video of Nate about 1 1/2 years ago talking about Invisible children, the organization he worked with.
Go here for that.

Please continue to lift up this precious family before our Heavenly Father.

Monday, July 12, 2010

More Prayer needed

Just learned that the brother of Nate, Kyle was on his way to his family after learning the news of his brother's death and the plane crashed in Chapel Hill, NC.  The family lives in Raleigh.  News reports say that Kyle is in fair condition.

God be merciful! Please continue to lift up this family as tragedy is all around them.

Also, please continue to pray for Andy and Erin as they are also grieving the loss of this fellow student.  Andy has been interviewed  today by all of the major news shows.  The grief this family has had in the last 24 hours is more then one could imagine.
go here for the latest news reports.

Please be praying!

It is with deep sadness that I write this post.  Last night we were informed by Andy(our pastor and friend) that a young man, Nate Henn, was killed in the terrorists bombs in Uganda yesterday.

Nate was in the youth group where Andy served as Youth Pastor in Delaware.  Nate accompanied Andy and Erin on various missions trips with a deep heart and passion for ministry during his youth group years. He then went on to become a missionary in Uganda.

This is a tragedy to us as believers but not a surprise to our All-powerful, mighty God.

I am reminded of what Joseph said to his brothers years after they had sold him into slavery....

Genesis 50:20
You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
Please be in prayer for his family and for the people he has ministered to.  Pray for the hearts of those
who are left questioning why, and are grieving the loss of a friend, son, brother.  That this would turn their eyes to Jesus and would further His kingdom.

This was what Andy had to say in an email this morning,

"Erin and I are heart-broken and grieving over the loss of a precious brother, former student and friend who lost his life in a blast in Kampala, Uganda last evening.
I received a call from my family members who serve in Kampala around 8:45 last evening with the news that Nate had been killed.  I then spoke with Bob Henn, Nate’s dad, later in the evening as we wept and ran to Jesus together.
Nate loved the Lord.  He grew tremendously in his faith during our youth group days together.  His first missions experiences were with us on our trips around the world.  His passion for the Lord was real and expressed in his compassion for others in need.  Today he celebrates his salvation completely.
It is all over the news…here is the story from Invisible Children, the organization Nate was serving.


It is with deep sadness that we write to tell you that one of our dear friends has been lost in the terrorist attack earlier today in Kampala.  Nate "Oteka" Henn was killed by an explosion that ripped through a rugby field where hundreds of people had gathered to watch the final match of the World Cup.

Nate worked with us at Invisible Children for a year and a half and leaves behind a legacy of honor, integrity, and service.  From traveling the United States without pay advocating for the freedom of abducted child soldiers in Joseph Kony's war, to raising thousands of dollars to put war-affected Ugandan students in school, Nate lived a life that demanded explanation.  He sacrificed his comfort to live in the humble service of God and of a better world, and his is a life to be emulated.

Nate was determined to go to Uganda and see the homeland of the friends he had made on tour.  His love for the Ugandan students he had worked with is exemplified in the deep friendships he forged with them.  He was not serving some idea of downtrodden Africa.  He was serving Innocent, Tony, Boni, Ronald, Papito, Sunday, and Lilian.  These are some of our Ugandan students who fell in love with Nate's wit, strength, character and steadfast friendship.  They gave him the Acholi name "Oteka", which means "The Strong One."  Some of them were with him at the time of the attack.

Nate was not a glory-seeker and never sought the spotlight.  He asked not to be made a hero of.

But the life he lived inspires reflection and imitation.

In a facebook status update he made just before his trip to Uganda, he wrote, "thank you for helping me achieve my dream of getting to Uganda" and while there he wrote home about being in the best days of his life and loving his time with his Ugandan friends.

Nate's life ended while living out this dream, a selfless dream of putting others first, seeking peace, and living a life of integrity.  He will be forever missed, forever remembered, and his legacy will live on in our love and deeds.

For more information and news about the the terrible attack, click here for the New York Times article.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Ramblings from my heart

I know that I have been very vague about our adoption.  I apologize.  I have been advised by those in this process with us that we need to remain very tight lipped until she is with us.  This is extremely hard for me because my nature is to live life and share the good the bad and all of the inbetween stuff.

I value people and relationships.  I enjoy heart to heart talks, I love discussing deep convictions and values with friends and family.  I love to peek into the windows of hearts and find out what makes people the way they are.  I am a reflector, processor, obsessor, worrier, analyzer....and a few other things but I love relationship.

 Which brings me back to my baby girl who is on the other side of the world in a temporary home waiting for her forever family to come get her and to smother her with love.

  This process is very long.....painfully long.

The first time we laid eyes on her she was 4 months old.  Our hearts were instantly taken with this beautiful little girl whom we have never met and so began our pursuit for her. Paperwork.....lots and lots of paperwork.  It's been 4 months and it feels like an eternity.  I long for this baby girl, my baby girl to be home with our family.  To hold her, snuggle with her, show her how much she is loved.  To share her with her daddy and sisters and brothers, to show her off to the world and tell them how God has blessed us beyond measure with the privilege of adopting her into our lives.

Today, I received some new information and shared this with our family at dinner time.  She is 8 months old now and she is rolling from side to side and sitting up, she eats pureed rice, meat, and veggies.  She enjoys fruit and especially loves bananas.  She is progressing right along as she should be so why did my heart sink when I heard this?! Why did this make me cry?

I'm missing all these milestones because of a bunch of paperwork/seals/approvals and what not.  Well, that's what I feel like but I know this is all a part of the process.

I absolutely, 100% know that God's timing is perfect! So for these next 6 months or so we are able to  lift up our baby girl before her heavenly Father who loves her far more then we could.  Praying for her safety, for her to feel loved, for her needs to be met when they arise, for her caretakers to love her and snuggle her, and for her heart to be ready to receive her new family.  In a little bit we will be sending pictures of our family in a little book to her and hopefully she will get used to seeing her new blonde haired mommy and sisters so it won't be quite as startling to her:) No, I'm not dying my hair...the thought crossed my mind..jk.

Waiting can be so difficult, but it forces us to lay aside our own desires(quite often selfish ones)to trust Jesus with it all.  I know that this time is also good for us to prepare for a baby and all the exciting newness that brings.  Preparing our hearts individually and as a family.  When we fully depend on Him and we lay ourselves down at his feet and completely submit to His plans and His ways....the peace He gives is  heavenly.

Psalm 130:5
I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope.

So as we wait for our baby my prayer is to not be so consumed with what "tomorrow" brings but to continue to serve Him in the day to day living.  Oh the freedom that comes when we give it all over without taking it back(uh..not so good with this).  Sweet surrender!


Romans 8:25
But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.


Isaiah 30:18
Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; he rises to show you compassion.  For the Lord is a God of justice.  Blessed are all who wait for him!

The song I have on my playlist....I sing over and over again, it pretty much says it all for me right now.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

The "4th" of July, Celebrating Our Independence!

On Sunday, after church we headed over to Aunt Deb and Uncle John's for a fun picnic with family and friends.  The kids got to swim and the adults stayed cool under the tents.
The hostess with the most-est, Aunt Debbie! Her entire house was decorated with patriotic everything from rugs to dish towels to even both bathrooms!

Uncle Junie and Uncle Tom

Aunt Barb, Sue, Aunt Deb, and Aunt Mae

Grammy and her girls

Natey boy( i hope he lets me call him that forever)


Maggie-pie

Gracie-girl, Gigi, gidget, beetle...

Robbie, Rob, robbers, robbie bobble(yeah that ain't gone go over much longer:)


Daddy and Gracie snuggling
We headed home to do the sparklers and as you can see Bob is so very patriotic with his pj flag pants




I'm Back.....finally! It's been tooooo long!

To much time has passed since my last blog post and so much has happened! So over the next few days I will be updating you on the last 2 plus weeks.

Starting with the most recent and working my way back.....

Our celebration of Independence Day!!! With lots of family and friends! These pics are of the "5th" of July and a little hometown parade!  Lots of fun:)

Maggie, Karis, Cass, and Gracie and guess who in the back??

Robbie, Caleb, Nate, and Hayelom

Kaedon.....sweetie pie!

Jack and Bob

my beautiful friend inside and out, Erin and me

Andy and Kaed
Good job Maggie!

Hooray for the Vets who have risked their lives for our freedom!
Karis and Gracie friends since birth!

Nate messing around with Uncle Caleb
the girls were giving each other foot and back rubs..cracked me up
poor pic, I know but they were all trading candy and Uncle C was watching the wheelin and dealin
I mean seriously, can you get any cuter?!
Cass-diddy was singing Twinkle to her brother...too stinkin cute!

more splashin and fun
Mag-pie and Kaed staying cool